It’s akin to rocket science. When it comes to manually pleasing a woman using their fingers, most men think that this is how difficult the task is. However, if you would like to give your significant other an earth-shattering orgasm, all you need to do is learn how to finger a girl (using your fingers to sexually please a girl).
Taking the First Step to Manually Pleasing a Girl
As a man, you’ve been using your own hands to pleasure yourself for the longest time – but what if it’s your turn to use your ‘manual skills’ when pleasuring a woman? There are times most especially in the beginning of a relationship when it is not yet an option to go for penetrative sex. Aside from kissing and making out, pleasing each other using your hands is the best way to give each other sexual fulfillment.
So what’s the first thing that a guy needs to do in order to manually please a girl? Let’s start with the basics. Remember that the vagina is a bit more complex as compared to a man’s sexual organ. It’s made up of little nooks and crannies that you may not necessarily be familiar with so this is the best way to start. Read up – if you haven’t done so already – on your basic sex education book and learn about the difference between the vaginal opening, the urethra, the clitoris and the G-spot. We’ll learn more about that later.
Another important factor to consider is a really basic thing: make sure to loosen your fingers, crack your knuckles and – more importantly – trim your nails and make sure that your hands are clean before using them to pleasure her. You want to pleasure her and not inflict pain, so ask her to brace herself for the pleasures that she’s about to be in!
The Next Step: Bringing Her to a Mind-Blowing Orgasm
After going through the basics, the number one way to prime her up for the pleasure that she’ll get under your helping hands is by engaging in prolonged foreplay. Again, the vagina is a bit complex and there are sensitive parts which might cause discomfort or outright pain when directly stimulated – so you should make sure that she is already wet and ready before using your fingers on her.
Only start massaging her vaginal lips when she has enough natural moisture or when you have enough lubricants in your fingertips. Gently touch her clitoris and the vaginal opening, starting slow and then gradually increasing your speed as you go along. She will make a motion with her hips as the intensity of the sensations get stronger, but make sure to keep your pace and rhythm steady. You’ll know that you have hit the right spot when her vaginal muscles flex and then go lax against your hands.
By following these easy-to-follow tips and steps on how to finger a girl (using your fingers to sexually please a girl), you are bound to become the best lover that you can be – so start practicing now!
